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What is Cyberbullying?

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Foundations & Clues
What is Cyberbullying?
Core Definition: Deliberate digital hurt
Single Serious Incident counts
Power Imbalance beyond physical size
Activity 1: Flip 6 Clue Cards
Activity 2: Inspect 5 Phone Hotspots
Activity 3: Sort 6 Scenarios Arena
Activity 4: Knowledge Verification (3/3)
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Case Detective
6 Digital Investigations
Case 1: Secret Gaming Clan Chat
Case 2: Humiliating Meme Account
Case 3: Leaked Private Direct Message
Case 4: Coordinated Classroom Dogpile
Case 5: Competitive Gaming Trash-Talk
Case 6: Impersonation Profile Faking
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Rapid Analysis
Speed Reflex Challenge
Rapid Triage of incoming feeds
Kindness vs. Banter vs. Threat
8 Round Reflex Blitz
Streak Mastery (+20 XP / -5 XP)
Instinctive Threat Spotting
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Upstander Action Protocol
S - Stop Engaging (De-escalate)
T - Take Private Evidence (Proof)
O - Offer Direct Support (Check-in)
P - Pass to Adult (Safe Reporting)
3 Interactive Crisis Incidents
5 Dangerous Traps to avoid
Interactive Sentence Starters
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Action Guide & Diploma
4 Real-World Scenario Checks
Grey Area Spectrum Matrix
Personal Upstander Pledge
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Complete All 4 Tasks to Unlock Step 2 (Case Detective)

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Grades 5–6 Digital Citizenship

What is Cyberbullying?

Accurate Definition & Real-World Skills
💡 The Definition:

“Cyberbullying is using digital technology to deliberately hurt, threaten, embarrass, exclude, or harass someone.”

Important: A Single Incident Can Still Be Serious Cyberbullying

Some people think cyberbullying only counts if it happens repeatedly. That is not true. A single serious incident—such as sharing a humiliating photo, leaking private information, or making a threat—can cause lasting harm, be viewed or shared by hundreds of people, and requires immediate adult intervention.

Clarifying Bullying vs. Harmful Online Behaviour

Harmful Online Behaviour

Not every unkind online action is technically bullying. It might be a one-off emotional outburst in a game, a clumsy comment, or misunderstood sarcasm. However, all harmful or threatening behaviour should be taken seriously—you should still set boundaries or get help.

Cyberbullying

Involves deliberate cruelty, targeted harassment, social exclusion, or an unfair power imbalance that makes the person feel cornered or unsafe.

🌟 Key Mindset: “You cannot always control what someone else does online, but you can choose how you respond and when to get help.”
Expanding "Power" Online: How Bullies Create an Unfair Advantage

In the real world, power often means being physically bigger. Online, power takes many different forms:

1. Large Audiences

Posting on TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube where dozens or hundreds of people can watch, like, and comment.

2. Popularity & Social Status

Popular students or group leaders turning an entire friend group or clan against one person.

3. Private Information

Holding someone's personal secret, screenshot, or embarrassing photo as leverage or blackmail.

4. Account Access

Gaining access to someone's Roblox account, phone, or changing group passwords to lock them out.

5. Virality & Fast Spreading

The ability to take a screenshot and broadcast it across multiple group chats in just 5 seconds.

6. Multiple People Dogpiling

Several people coordinating insults or mass-reporting in a game lobby so the target feels outnumbered.

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Critical Safety Incidents: NEVER Handle These Alone!

If you or someone you know encounters threats of physical harm, doxxing (sharing home addresses or phone numbers), blackmail, inappropriate/sexual content, or stalking:

Emergency Action Formula: Save Evidence → Stop Engaging → Tell a Trusted Adult Immediately Do NOT attempt to investigate or debate these situations yourself.

🃏 Activity 1: Flip & Learn (Explore All 6 Cards)

Tap each card to flip it over and uncover essential cyberbullying concepts. Flipped: 0 / 6

🔍 Activity 2: Simulated Phone: Spot the Red Flags

Tap each of the 5 numbered hotspot pins on the screen below to inspect danger signs. Inspected: 1 / 5

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@anon_burn_squad99
Shared 10m ago • Public
[UNMASKED POLL] Maya thinks she is smart, but failed the exam! Check out this candid photo everyone laugh 🤡😂
@leo_g: Haha who made this account?? Savage 🔥
@sarah_k: Omg kick her out of our gaming clan too lol
@shadow_user: Leaked her phone number and home street! Call her 24/7!
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Critical Thinking & Grey Areas

The Spectrum of Online Interactions: Navigating the Grey Areas

Online interactions aren't always black and white. Use this 5-stage spectrum to evaluate what is happening:

Tap any category below to reveal real-world boundary tests: Critical Thinking: Accidental vs. Thoughtless vs. Severe
1. Friendly Joking / Banter

Both sides are laughing, zero intent to hurt, and stops immediately if someone asks.

2. Accidental / Misunderstood

Tone was misread in text; the sender apologizes and deletes it as soon as they realize it caused hurt.

3. Thoughtless Mean Behaviour

A one-off angry insult or rude comment during a tense game. Rude and needs addressing, but not persistent.

4. Cyberbullying

Deliberate, targeted harm, social exclusion, humiliation, or severe single events (e.g. sharing secret photos).

5. Critical Safety Threat

Physical violence threats, doxxing home addresses, blackmail, or predatory contact. Immediate adult priority!

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🎯 Activity 3: Interactive Sorting Arena

Classify each online scenario into the correct zone. Correctly Sorted: 0 / 6 • Guided Learning: If incorrect, your coach explains why!

🟢 Friendly Banter
Mutual joking where everyone is laughing and feels respected.
Drop or tap banter scenarios here
🟡 Cyberbullying
Targeted harm, humiliation, exclusion, or severe single events (like sharing private photos).
Drop or tap cyberbullying scenarios here
🔴 Critical Threat / Danger
Doxxing home addresses, physical threats, blackmail, or severe predation needing immediate adult help.
Drop or tap critical threats here
📥 Unsorted Scenarios (Drag, Tap to Select, or 1-Click Sort): Tap a card or use the quick buttons below each card
Safe & Anonymous Reflection

Private Student Reflection: What Holds People Back?

Select an option to see supportive advice. (Your answer is private and not recorded.)

“What do you think is the #1 reason students hesitate to tell an adult when something bad happens online?”
Step 1 Knowledge Checkpoint

Verify Your Understanding to Unlock Step 2

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Verify your understanding of cyberbullying concepts below. Answer all 3 questions correctly to unlock Step 2: Case Detective!

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Complete all 4 tasks above (Flip cards, Phone hotspots, Sorting arena, and Understanding verification) to unlock Step 2.

Exclusion & Social Isolation

Case #1: The Secret Gaming Clan Chat

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Squad Chat (#game-lounge)
3:42 PM
Detective Analysis:

Alex is removed from the team group chat right before the tournament. Players start posting mean nicknames about Alex.

As an Upstander, what is the best immediate action?
⚡ SPEED REFLEX CHALLENGE

Rapid Scenario Analysis

Incoming messages detected! Quickly categorize each statement into Kindness, Cyberbullying, or Critical Threat before time expires.

Streak: 0 🔥
Scenario 1 of 8
"Hey, nice job on the science project today! You explained that circuit really well."
Source: Classroom Discussion Board
Action Protocol & Practical Skills

The Upstander S.T.O.P. Framework & Action Lab

When you encounter harmful behavior or cyberbullying online, use this memorable 4-step framework to respond safely and effectively.

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Step 4 Core Activity S.T.O.P. Upstander Action Protocol Lab

Put the S.T.O.P. protocol to the test across 3 crisis incidents. Solve each stage (Stop, Take Evidence, Offer Support, Pass to Adult) to unlock Step 5!

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Phase 1

STOP ENGAGING

Do not reply in anger, argue back, or attempt revenge. Retaliating only fuels the drama and can get you penalized too. Step away from your device and take a breath.

“You cannot always control what someone else does, but you can choose how you respond.”
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TAKE EVIDENCE

Take clear screenshots capturing the username, exact messages, date, and timestamp before posts are deleted or hidden.

⚠️ Critical Rule: Do NOT forward or share screenshots with friends. That spreads the harm further!
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OFFER SUPPORT

Be an active Upstander. Send a private, kind message to the person targeted: “I saw what was said, it was completely unfair. I'm here for you and have your back.”

A small private message breaks isolation and reminds them they are not alone.
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PASS TO AN ADULT

Share your preserved evidence with a trusted adult: a parent, teacher, school counselor, or administrator. Telling an adult is NOT snitching—it protects safety!

Adults have the authority and tools to resolve serious conflicts and contact platforms.
Critical Safety Rules

⚠️ What NOT to Do: The 5 Dangerous Traps for Upstanders

Stay Safe • Never Be a Vigilante

Well-meaning students often try to solve cyberbullying like a movie hero or private detective. In real life, these actions almost always backfire and create more danger. Study these 5 strict safety boundaries:

🚫 Trap 1: Don't Play Vigilante Detective

Never try to track down IP addresses, hack anonymous burner accounts, or create fake bait profiles. Amateur investigations can violate laws, compromise your own security, and trigger severe retaliation.

🚫 Trap 2: Never Forward Screenshots to Friends

When you capture evidence, keep it strictly private. Forwarding screenshots to classmates (“Look what they said about Sarah!”) multiplies the victim's humiliation by broadcasting the attack to dozens more phones.

🚫 Trap 3: Don't Retaliate with Counter-Insults

Typing angry roasts or insulting comments back gives the bully the exact audience reaction they crave. Furthermore, school staff and gaming moderation filters will see two people exchanging insults and penalize both of you.

🚫 Trap 4: Don't Confront an Aggressive Mob Alone

If an entire group chat or stream chat is dogpiling someone, trying to argue in the public chat usually redirects the mob toward you. Instead: mute the chat, reach out to the victim privately to offer support, and notify adults.

🚫 Trap 5: Never Promise to Keep Secrets for Critical Threats

If a peer says “Don't tell anyone, but they threatened to hurt me tomorrow” or mentions self-harm, weapons, or blackmail, never keep it secret. Physical safety is always the highest priority—tell a school counselor, parent, or call a crisis helpline immediately.

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🎯 Step 4 Activity: S.T.O.P. Protocol Action Lab

Work through each crisis scenario stage-by-stage. Select the true Upstander protocol at each step to master digital de-escalation!

0 of 3 Scenarios Mastered
S.T.O.P. Lab Mastery Progress Complete all 3 scenarios to unlock Step 5 (0/3)
Choose an Emergency Incident to Resolve:
Discord & Gaming

Incident 1: Gaming Discord Voice Raid

Scenario 1 of 3
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Select the safest, most effective Upstander response.
Interactive Safety Sandbox

Hands-On Practice: Block & Report Simulator

Practice using real platform moderation and safety controls on this simulated hostile comment.

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@ToxicGamer_99 • 2m ago
Flagged User
Simulated Post
“Nobody in this school likes you @Alex_M, delete your account and quit playing before we leak your photos.”
Practical Sentence Starters

Upstander Script Generator: How to Tell an Adult

Not sure what to say? Select who you are speaking with and the issue to generate an exact, professional conversation script.

Generated Upstander Script:

“I have screenshots of something uncomfortable happening in an online group chat, and I'd like your advice on handling it safely.”

Critical Guidelines

What NOT To Do Online

Avoid these common mistakes that escalate situations or put you at risk:

❌ Don't Retaliate Typing angry insults back gives the bully the reaction they want and can get you suspended or banned as well.
❌ Don't Threaten Back Making threats of harm violates school policies and safety laws, turning you from a victim/upstander into a rule-breaker.
❌ Don't Forward Content Forwarding screenshots of embarrassing photos or rumors to friends—even to show how crazy it is—multiplies the victim's pain.
❌ Don't Join In for Friends Never leave laughing emojis, like mean posts, or vote in cruel polls just because friends or clan leaders are doing it.
❌ Don't Investigate Threats Alone Never try to track down an anonymous account's real identity or confront a stranger online. Always pass serious threats to adults.

The 4 Online Roles: Who Will You Choose to Be?

1. Instigator (Bully)

Uses technology to intentionally embarrass, exclude, or hurt others.

2. Target

The individual being picked on, excluded, or harassed online.

3. Bystander

Sees the cruelty but stays silent, laughs, or shares it, fueling the problem.

4. Upstander

Recognizes the harm, does not join in, supports the target, and reports it.

Action Readiness & Certification

Final Knowledge Check & Pocket Action Guide

The most important outcome is that you know exactly what to do when real situations arise online.

📝 Final Knowledge Check: Analyze 4 Real Scenarios

Demonstrate your mastery by deciding the appropriate response for each modern online event.

0 / 4 Scenarios Evaluated
Scenario 1 of 4 • Group Chat Exclusion & Roasting

A classmate is kicked from the main gaming squad chat right before a competition. Others begin posting inside jokes and screenshots mocking their skills.

Scenario 2 of 4 • Online Gaming Voice Chat & Harassment

In a Roblox/Fortnite match, someone misses a shot. A teammate screams angry insults into voice chat, then posts their username in a public Discord server telling people to report and harass them.

Scenario 3 of 4 • Social Media TikTok Duet Mockery

Someone duets a classmate's school project video on TikTok, adding clown face filters and mocking their clothes. The video gets 500 likes and cruel comments.

Scenario 4 of 4 • Critical Threat Doxxing & Threat

An anonymous user posts a student's home street address and phone number in a Discord server and writes: “We know where you live, watch out tomorrow.”

Keep & Remember

Digital Upstander Pocket Action Guide

Save these 6 core principles. When something happens online, follow this checklist:

1. Don't Join In No laughing emojis, no likes, no comments, no voting in cruel polls.
2. Don't Retaliate Avoid typing back in anger. You control your actions, not theirs.
3. Save Evidence Take screenshots showing usernames, messages, and timestamps. (Never forward to friends!)
4. Support the Person Reach out privately: “I'm here for you and have your back.”
5. Report & Block Use built-in app tools to mute, block, and flag inappropriate content.
6. Tell a Trusted Adult Whenever a situation is serious, threatening, or whenever you're unsure.
Private Upstander Check-In

Emotional Check-In: What Holds You Back From Asking for Help?

100% Confidential • No Wrong Answers

Almost everyone hesitates before talking to an adult about online drama. Select the statement that feels most honest to you to see supportive, realistic guidance and sentence starters:

✍️ Your Personal Upstander Pledge (Prints on Your Certificate):

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CERTIFICATION OF ACHIEVEMENT AND COMPLETION OF THE COURSE
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR DEDICATION TO DIGITAL SAFETY!

This certificate proudly recognizes

Alex Explorer

has successfully completed the comprehensive Digital Upstander training course, demonstrating exceptional skills to identify cyberbullying, recognize unfair power imbalances, utilize S.T.O.P. action rules, and foster a safe online community.

“I pledge to never forward hurtful screenshots, to check in privately on excluded peers, and to get adult help when safety is at risk.”
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Educator & Safeguarding Guide

Teacher Guidance: Facilitating Digital Upstanders (Grades 5–6)

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CRITICAL SAFEGUARDING & DISCLOSURE PROTOCOL

Because these scenarios explore real-world digital harassment, exclusion, and threats, students may recognize incidents from their own lives and disclose active cyberbullying during this lesson.

  • Listen calmly & non-judgmentally: Reassure the student that they are safe and did the right thing by telling you.
  • Never promise complete secrecy: Explain gently: “I'm so glad you told me. Because I care about your safety, I need to involve the people who can help protect you.”
  • Do not debate or blame: Avoid asking why they were on an app or why they didn't block sooner.
  • Follow school protocol immediately: Report the disclosure directly to your Designated Safeguarding Lead (DSL) or school counselor.
Learning Objectives (ISTE Aligned)
  • Define cyberbullying accurately (including single severe incidents).
  • Distinguish harmful online behavior from cyberbullying and safety emergencies.
  • Analyze digital power imbalances (large audiences, social status, private data).
  • Demonstrate the S.T.O.P. framework and practical blocking/reporting skills.
Suggested Lesson Length (45–60 Mins)
  • 10 min: Definitions, Spectrum & Power Dynamics (Tab 1)
  • 20 min: Case Detective & Scenario Investigations (Tab 2 & 3)
  • 15 min: S.T.O.P. Action Rules, Blocking/Reporting Skills (Tab 4)
  • 15 min: Final Knowledge Check, Reflection & Discussion (Tab 5)
Classroom Discussion Questions & Facilitation
Q1: “Why can a single online incident count as serious cyberbullying?”

Teacher Key: Digital content can spread to hundreds of people in seconds and remain online permanently. A single leaked private photo or doxxed home address causes massive, ongoing harm without needing to be repeated.

Q2: “Why shouldn't you forward screenshots of cyberbullying to friends?”

Teacher Key: Forwarding screenshots expands the audience, increases the target's humiliation, and acts as accidental cyberbullying. Screenshots should only be shown to trusted adults.

Q3: “What is the difference between snitching and reporting?”

Teacher Key: Snitching is trying to get someone in trouble for personal gain or petty reasons. Reporting is getting someone OUT of trouble or danger to keep people safe.

Common Misconceptions to Address
Myth: “Just turn off the screen and it goes away.”

Fact: The post remains visible to peers. Taking evidence and getting adult support is necessary to remove the content.

Myth: “Anonymous accounts can't be traced.”

Fact: App platforms and school authorities can trace IP addresses, device identifiers, and registration emails.

Myth: “If I'm not the one posting, I'm innocent.”

Fact: Liking, commenting laughing emojis, or voting in cruel polls actively fuels harassment as an active bystander.

Immediate Safe Harbor

🆘 You Are Not Alone. Get Help Now.

If you or a friend are feeling scared, bullied, threatened, or overwhelmed online, confidential and free help is available right now. You are not in trouble.

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Free, 24/7 Confidential Crisis Helplines

Crisis Text Line Text 24/7

Free, confidential text support with a trained crisis volunteer.

Text HOME to 741741
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text

Available 24/7 in English and Spanish for distress, bullying, or overwhelming stress.

Call or text 988 (Toll-Free)
The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth) 24/7 Safe Space

Support for LGBTQ young people facing harassment, rejection, or cyberbullying.

Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678
CyberTipline (NCMEC) Online Exploitation

If private, intimate, or explicit photos are being leaked, shared, or used for extortion.

Report online: report.cybertip.org or Call 1-800-843-5678

Word-for-Word Script to Tell a Teacher or Counselor

If you don't know what to say, you can show this text or read it aloud:

“I need to tell you about something hurtful happening online. I feel overwhelmed and I was worried about my phone being taken or being called a snitch, but I preserved screenshots and I need your help to handle it safely.”
🏫 Trusted Adults in Your School Building:
  • School Counselor / Social Worker: Confidential, supportive, and trained in digital student conflicts.
  • Favorite Teacher / Advisor: Great first stop to help you walk to the counselor's office.
  • Dean or Vice Principal: Can take formal disciplinary actions and block bullies from campus activities.
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